Myths and Misconceptions
Writer Naomi Wolf talks about motherhood, strong girls, and the importance of dissent
January/February 2002
Andy Steiner Utne Reader
The chronic chronicler of a generation, feminist author Naomi Wolf
writes books that get people talking. Her first, the international
best-seller The Beauty Myth, launched a debate about female body
image that continues to rage today. She followed that stunning
debut with Fire with Fire, which focuses on women and power, and
Promiscuities, a book about young women’s emerging sexuality. Over
the past decade, Wolf’s way with words and telegenic personality
have earned her the title 'the Gloria Steinem of the ’90s.' The
former Rhodes scholar gained notoriety when she was tapped as a
high-paid 'image consultant' for Al Gore’s 2000 presidential
campaign.
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While Wolf’s books are always thoroughly researched works, they
usually weave in some measure of personal experience, an element
that has helped assure her a loyal fan base. When word got out that
Wolf was pregnant with her first child, readers knew it was only a
matter of time before she published something about it. Sure
enough, seven years and two children later, Wolf is out with
Misconceptions (Doubleday, 2001), her critique of pregnancy and
birth in America.
Though many say they saw it coming, Wolf insists that she didn’t
set out to write about motherhood. 'It wasn’t my goal,' she says.
'But as I lived the experience of becoming a mother, the words just
started flowing out of me.' Wolf and her husband, David Shipley,
have two children, Rosa, 6, and Joey, 1. She spoke with senior
editor Andy Steiner from her home in New York City.
You recently moved from the suburbs to an apartment in New York
City. How do you like raising children in a bustling urban
area?
Large cities can be really wonderful and community-based places to
raise children, partly because you are away from the tyranny of
automobiles. I love that in this city kids can run in and out of
stores where they know the storekeepers, and they see a wide
variety of people on the street. For me, living in the suburbs
contributed to the postpartum depression that I wrote about in
Misconceptions. Our culture makes the experience of new motherhood
a particularly isolating one, and I found that the suburban
environment is especially isolating for women and the children they
care for. Every day, our suburb became this ghost town of white
women and their babies. Sure, you could go to the playground and be
with the other moms, but you got the feeling that you were still
living at the margins of American life, away from the rest of the
world.
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