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Appealing to those core values is what wins over critics, Mitchell observes, as does maintaining an open process, which includes a standing invitation for wary parents to review any possibly objectionable books or curriculum guides. (Unfortunately, this often means repeated assurances that gay and lesbian partners won't be shown in bed.)

An issue that brings parents together, regardless of theiem Familyr political persuasion, is bullying -- no matter who the target is. That students who are perceived to be lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender face harassment has opened the door for advocates like Chasnoff. It's 'an easier sell,' she says. 'It's universally recognized that bullying needs to be stopped.'

To combat the harsh treatment students endure from their peers in school hallways, the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network (GLSEN) developed No Name-Calling Week (www.nonamecallingweek.org). The event, which participating schools now hold annually, has earned the respect and support of many educators, including the national associations of elementary school principals, secondary school principals, school nurses, school psychologists, and school counselors.

Even with this prestigious (not to mention practical) support, No Name-Calling Week has endured attacks from naysayers on the right, who object to gay content in the GLSEN's curriculum guide. Josh Lamont, communications director for GLSEN, isn't surprised, pointing out that religiously based opponents are persistent and highly motivated: 'They're devoted to this work. After all, if they don't condemn us, they're going to hell.'

Eventually, mythical promises of fire and brimstone may be all the right wing has left. It turns out that the sort of intolerance that feeds the flames of homophobia is often as indiscriminate as it is cruel. As Lamont points out, parents of all stripes may feel more urgency about ending that gay bashing once it becomes more widely known that 'most victims of anti-LGBT harassment are straight.'

Of course, enlightened self-interest notwithstanding, folks might simply stand up for diversity because it's the right thing to do.

Minneapolis writer Jacqueline White is also an advocate for queer youth issues.

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