November 22, 2009
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The New Elders

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RL: I define calling as the inner urge to give your gifts away. And that inner urge is from cradle to grave. So one's job might end, but one's calling never ends. That's why the boomers are interested. They don't know what to call it, but they're either interested in working or serving in some capacity, as long as they're healthy and capable of sustaining their lives that way.

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Gifts, plus passion, plus values, equals calling. Using your gifts on something you feel purposeful or passionate about, in a healthy environment, an environment that allows your voice to come forward.

EU: This whole conversation is making me think of the Parzival myth. Parzival is the [Holy] Grail story, and some call it the first modern myth. It comes from the 12th century. It's this guy who like so many of us is on a quest but doesn't even realize he's on a quest. He gets caught up in one distraction after another, fighting, seducing, being seduced, getting distracted, being too busy, and he forgets what his mission is. By some dumb luck he ends up in the Grail castle and meets the ailing king, but he doesn't ask The Question. If he had, he would free the king, free the people, and claim his own authority. Instead, he's cast out and goes wandering again for many years, having more encounters, making more messes. Eventually, through relationships, he discovers his heart and his capacity to feel what another person is feeling.
He ends up back at the castle again, and this time he meets the king and asks the question -- 'What ails thee?' -- thereby freeing the king, freeing the people, and becoming the Grail king, his destined role.

It all comes through relationships. It comes through connecting with another human being. That comes through life experience. And that comes through struggle. For me, that's what this is all about.

Want more? Read the rest of Utne Reader's September / October package on mentoring:

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